HEAVEN IS REAL!!!
True Story by A 4 year old boy.
At 3 years 10 months, Colton Burpo was a sunny
child, a preacher’s son certain of his faith and his eternal fate. Then his
appendix burst, and as doctors failed to figure out what was wrong with him, he
lay in a hospital bed until his father, Todd, saw “the shadow of death” cross
his face. “I recognized it instantly,” Todd, a pastor, recalls. With Colton’s
face “covered in death,” Todd and his wife, Sonja, took the boy to another
hospital, where he was wheeled into surgery. “He’s not in good shape,” the
surgeon said. As Colton screamed for his father, Todd fled, locked himself in a
room and railed at God.
Less than two hours
later, Colton was awake, still shouting for his father. “Daddy, you know I
almost died,” he said. But only over the months following his recovery did his
parents hear his whole story: that while in surgery, he went to heaven and met
Jesus, who assigned him homework; he also encountered angels, a rainbow-hued
horse, John the Baptist, God the father, the Holy Spirit, a sister his mother
miscarried (unknown to Colton) before he was born and his great-grandfather,
Pop, as a young man. Everyone in heaven had wings; Colton’s were smaller than
most. He learned that the righteous, including his father, would fight in a
coming last battle.
Many people, even
religious people, would have dismissed this story as the medication-induced
hallucinations of a severely ill toddler. The Burpos made it into a book.
“Heaven
Is for Real” was published in late
2010, became a word-of-mouth best seller and has spent 59 (nonconsecutive)
weeks as the No. 1 nonfiction paperback on The New York Times’s best-seller
list. Recently the publisher, Thomas Nelson, spun off a children’s picture book, now also a best seller, with illustrations
verified by Colton. And sometime in 2014, courtesy of DeVon Franklin, vice
president of production at Columbia Pictures, who considers his faith “a
professional asset,” a movie version should be released in theaters.
Colton, now 12, is an
ardent spokesman for the story and its franchise, which he has promoted in a
slick trailer and on various talk shows with his parents, including “Today” and “Fox and Friends.”
But it was Todd who wrote the book (with Lynn Vincent, Sarah Palin’s
ghostwriter). And it is a not-quite-4-year-old’s story they’re all selling.
In the end, Colton said,
Jesus returned him to earth as a concession to Todd’s supplications. “We knew
he wasn’t making it up,” Todd writes, because “he was able to tell us what we
were doing in another part of the hospital. . . . Not even Sonja had seen me in
that little room, having my meltdown with God.”
Colton’s awareness of
his parents’ whereabouts is just one of many details that authenticate his
story, according to Todd. Had Colton not gone to heaven, how would he have been
able to recognize a photo of Pop, at 29, that he’d never seen? How would he
know that angels had halos and that Jesus wore purple and had “markers,” which
turned out to be marks, on his hands and feet? Why would Colton weep so
copiously to a baby sitter about the sister he missed if he had not known this
miscarried child intimately in some other world?
The visions children have in near-death situations often have a
great deal to do with what they already believe. Culture to culture, these
experiences involve bright light, celestial figures and a sense of watching
your own body from above and sometimes all three. According to Kevin Nelson, a
neuroscientist and the author of “The Spiritual Doorway in the Brain,” adults
often have a sense of looking back over a life; young children, lacking that
perspective, tend to report “castles and rainbows, often populated with pets,
wizards, guardian angels, and like adults, they see relatives and religious
figures, too.” It’s hard to convey to anyone who grew up without the idea of
God just how fully the language, stories and “logic” of the Bible can dominate
a young mind, even — perhaps especially — the mind of a toddler.
To some degree, I speak
from experience. When I was not quite 4 — about the same age as Colton Burpo —
my own newly born-again parents sat me down to impart the good news about
Jesus, the son of God, who was born in a manger surrounded by sheep and donkeys
and ended up being nailed to a cross on a hill and dying there. On the third
day, he rose from the grave (you could tell it was he from the nail holes), and
he did all of this to pay for my sins. If I accepted him into my heart, I would
be rewarded with everlasting life in heaven. Otherwise, I would burn eternally
with the Devil in hell. So we needed, urgently, to pray.
“Right now?” I said, or
something like that. I remember not feeling 100 percent ready to ask this undead
man, with his holey extremities, to dwell inside me.
“Well, yes,” I recall my
mother saying. “Unless you’d like to spend eternity in the lake of fire, crying
out for a drink of water.”
My father laid his hand
on my shoulder. “We don’t want that, do we?”
“Daddy and I would hear
you from our mansion up in heaven,” my mother said. “But we wouldn’t be able to
help.”
So I repeated after
them, inviting Jesus into my bosom. And then, for years afterward, I lay awake
half the night, fearful of my own heartbeat, worried about what the savior
might be doing in there. I was filled with doubt, which was a sin, and anxious
enough about eternal damnation to endlessly beg the Lord’s forgiveness for
doubting. Unlike the kids I met at church, I obsessed over the fiery pits of
hell, not the pearly gates of heaven.
Todd Burpo, by his own
description, is “not a holy-rolling, fire-and-brimstone guy by any stretch but
not a soft-spoken minister in vestments, performing liturgical readings,
either; I’m a storyteller.” Throughout the book, he maintains this
everybody’s-welcome-in-my-big-tent, I’m-as-bowled-over-by-this-tale-as-you-are
tone. Beneath the regular-guy varnish, though, lie some troubling evangelical
tropes and veiled judgment.
Remembering the way he
watched his church “gather around us in the eye of the storm,” he wonders about
nonbelievers. “In times of crisis, where does their support come from?” After
the operation, as the family faced down $23,000 in medical bills, Colton,
“hands on hips,” emerged as the voice of wisdom: “ ‘Dad, Jesus used Dr.
O’Holleran to help fix me. You need to pay him.’ ”
“Even weirder,” Todd
says, “was what happened next”: their extended and spiritual family came
through, almost to the penny, with the money to cover the bills. The implicit
message is: Never mind health-insurance reform and other things of this world;
just give all your cares to Jesus! Not long after his celestial journey, Colton
interrupted one of Todd’s funeral services, pointing at the coffin, nearly
shouting: “Did that man have Jesus?! . . . He had to! He had to! . . . He can’t
get into heaven if he didn’t have Jesus in his heart!” The success of “Heaven
Is for Real” has as much to do with the undercurrent of blame in these asides
as it does with the feel-good, I-met-Jesus story. In the Middle Ages,
Christians’ near-death narratives explicitly involved harsh judgment and
infernal torment. All of that awaits the ungodly in Colton’s “nonfiction” story
too. You just don’t notice it at first, what with Jesus, his rainbow steed and the
seraphim.
If my parents had maintained a unified catechism, I
might have wound up more like Colton. But my mother started speaking in tongues
and casting out demons and then founded her own church, and my father, a more
mainline evangelical, eventually divorced her, denouncing her as a fanatic.
This schism began to underscore for me the arbitrariness of religious
conviction, but even so, I loved my mother with a ferocious intensity and
wanted her to be right. I wanted to see what she saw. She was visited by
angels. Why wasn’t I? Because I doubted, she said. Because I failed to “walk by
faith and not by sight.”
Uncertainty about
connections between the brain and the spirit world stretches back millenniums,
perhaps to the beginning of human evolution, but almost certainly to
prehistoric societies, which used a primitive kind of surgery to open the
skull. Contemporary neurologists have sophisticated ways to explain away the
uncanny. Kevin Nelson, who’s far more sympathetic than most to religious
experience, posits that the “light that beckons toward eternity” results from a
defect in the switch regulating consciousness, which is “more apt to get stuck
between the REM state and waking” in people who’ve had near-death experiences.
These explanations,
however respectful, won’t persuade a believer that her visions are imaginary,
just as “Heaven Is for Real” will never convert an atheist. Whichever side of this divide you sit on,
you’re unlikely to seek rapprochement with the other. In our à la carte media
world, most of us seek only to reinforce what we already think, and it’s
zealots who drive the discourse. Pat Robertson depicts natural disasters as
God’s punishment for homosexuality; Richard Dawkins seems almost reasonable by
comparison, arguing that religion begets persecution, that teaching children to
believe in God is abuse and that science is the only principled way to order
existence. Yet as Marilynne Robinson has observed, Hitler embarked upon the
Holocaust in the name of science; the fact that eugenics was bad science
doesn’t negate that fact. No matter how much we learn, the vision science
offers — of ourselves and of the universe — will always be incomplete and
consequently imperfect. Stories of gods, angels and rainbow horses will persist
in the gaps.
As for me, in matters of
the soul, I’m a devout agnostic. What astounds me, what has always astounded me,
is not that so many people are so certain of their beliefs but that they
excoriate people who don’t share them. As a child, I repented for my doubt. Now
I embrace it. Religious dogma is not verifiable; science is fallible.
Uncertainty is the only belief system I feel sure of.
Reading about Colton’s
meeting with Jesus, I kept thinking of my grandmother. At her funeral, my
stepfather, a onetime preacher, related a dream she told him six or eight
months before. Though a lifelong atheist, she dreamed she died and went to
heaven. She was shown to a mansion with ornate and gilded doors. Beyond them,
she knew without looking, lay more rooms than she could count. This would be
her eternal resting place.
“Were you excited?” he
asked her. (Maybe this was it — maybe she would finally accept Jesus as her
personal savior and lord!) “Wasn’t it great to see your reward?”
“Hell, no,” Granny said.
“Who’s going to dust those goddamned doors?”
No sooner had these words left my stepdad’s
mouth and a laugh started to rise under the funeral tent than a strong wind
came and blew the flowers off the coffin. The wreath slammed to the ground. And
then it started to rain.
US
boy Colton Burpo, 4, sees his dead sister in heaven while dying in operating
theatre
* 'She told me she was
glad to have someone from her family up there'
A boy who almost died from a ruptured appendix has said he met the dead sister he did not know existed.
The extraordinary claims by Colton Burpo, aged four, came after he was misdiagnosed with flu while his family, from Imperial, Nebraska, were on a trip to Colorado. By the time they returned home he was seriously ill and had to undergo emergency surgery twice.
While he was in the operating theatre his parents, Todd and Sonya, prayed, believing they were going to lose their son.
However, Colton soon recovered and then told his astonished parents that he had met the sister his mother had miscarried a year before his own birth.
What made this even more remarkable was his parents had never spoken to him about her.
A boy who almost died from a ruptured appendix has said he met the dead sister he did not know existed.
The extraordinary claims by Colton Burpo, aged four, came after he was misdiagnosed with flu while his family, from Imperial, Nebraska, were on a trip to Colorado. By the time they returned home he was seriously ill and had to undergo emergency surgery twice.
While he was in the operating theatre his parents, Todd and Sonya, prayed, believing they were going to lose their son.
However, Colton soon recovered and then told his astonished parents that he had met the sister his mother had miscarried a year before his own birth.
What made this even more remarkable was his parents had never spoken to him about her.
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